happy to b a fool

"you have 2 decide whether u wanna b ...a puppet or a playboy"-this piece of advice by a very good friend of mine made me write this seemingly stupid blog...i dint sleep for around 2 days just 2 find an answer to that...it reminded me of my friend's father asking him to take a decision on whether he wants to b an 'engineer' or a wants to 'join his family business'..but i soon realized that there is a lot of difference between the 2...i can always respect both the options in the latter one but none in the former....the person who adviced the same wanted me 2 b happy and be stubborn 2 face this changing world(they say we shudnt trust anyone)......but sorry buddy some changes are for good but not all...so am happy 2 b a fool than 2 b THAT Cool......
some days later,saw a person i respect a lot saying self centredness/selfishness is the first step towards happiness....it made me wonder that if thats true then y does a mother feels so very proud & happy when she feeds her own baby....seems 2 me that i can still find happiness without doing so...so if being selfish is smartness...am happy 2 b a fool....
then heard my junior saying-"everyone is doing things for his/her own selfish reasons"......gr8 thought dear....but temme y does a mother(yes again, coz thats the most b'ful relationship i can think of) stays awake whole night when her child is ill.......is there actually a selfish reason behind that???
And recently a friend asked me that how can someone help a person (or think good about a person) who has hurt him.......and my friend can easily find an answer 2 that when he observes his own mother(yes again,i said m talking bout spcl relations...) ....... numerous times his mistakes might have hurt her & still she loves her child & wants him to do well...& when he doesnt it hurts her even more...some relationships are that b'ful and can never change with time.......
and there were many more examples.......and its for us to think y....
THIS BLOG IS NOT HERE TO HURT ANYONE AND THE PEOPLE I HAVE MENTIONED HERE ARE MY WELLWISHERS....ITS HERE TO LET THEM KNOW LOVE & HAPPINESS GIVE SATISFACTION AND MAKE LIFE B'FUL & NOT SELFISHNESS OR HATRED.......SORRY AM NOT A GOOD WRITER so plzzzz bear.....